In the morning, tell her that you have something exciting planned for that evening, but don’t tell her what it is. Let her mind work on it. Even though it seems predictable if you tell her that you plan to seduce her that night, it builds anticipation as she spends the rest of the day thinking about what’s going to take place that evening.
When she gets home
When she gets home after work, quietly lead her to the washroom, where you will give her a warm bath. Glide a washcloth over her body and make sure to cover every inch of her. Then, give her some alone time so that she can rinse off and dry herself.
Once out of the washroom, welcome her into the bedroom and lay her down on the bed. Set the mood with some sensual music and a nice, long massage.
If you’ve done this effectively, she should be quite comfortable — and sexually aroused.
Tease each part of her body
Before you kiss her…
Kiss around her lips, give her a peck, and move around her mouth. Exhale onto her neck before you go in for a deep kiss. Move your lips lightly around her cheeks and under her chin.
Then, after kissing her aggressively, pull back and leave her wanting more.
Before you touch her breasts, go down on her or even get inside, here’s what you gotta do…
Before you play with her breasts…
Touch around her breasts and contour them with your palms. Slide your fingers between them lightly. Touch her nipples with the middle of your palm. Brush against her breasts with your lips.
Before you perform oral sex…
Kiss and lick around her vagina and caress her inner thighs. And just like that (snap your fingers), cut her off. She’ll go crazy, but when you start again, she’ll be much more turned on and closer to orgasm.
Before you penetrate her…
Enter her vagina for just a second with your fingers or your tongue. Penetrate her with only about an inch of your penis, just for a short moment. It may take some serious discipline on your part, but if you can manage it, she’ll be in a near frenzy.
More teasing tips
Suck on her fingers and toes
Digits are very sensitive to touch. This is a unique feeling most women enjoy. Carefully put one of her fingers into your mouth, suck on it a little bit, then move on to the next one.
Note: not all women are comfortable with having their toes sucked.
Play with her hair
Move your hands through her hair, tugging on it gently. Slide it across her face and her lips.
Kiss that hip spot
Run your index finger around that little spot where her hipbone meets her belly. Then, give that spot a little kiss on both sides.
Play an erotic game
Erotic games, like “Dirty Dice” or the “Kama Sutra Game,” available at almost any adult store, are a really good way to introduce new ideas into your lovemaking. Plus, it takes the pressure off you to initiate sex.
Hinder one of her senses
Blindfold her or tie her hands to the bed post. Leave her with no idea as to what’s going to happen next. Then, stimulate her by running a variety of objects over her body or using your mouth in strategic spots.
Leave her hanging
As you get into more intense sexual play, get up suddenly and leave the room for a few moments. You can do so without any explanation and see if she follows you (she might be that excited), or return after a few seconds and ravish her.
Be the best she’s ever had
Building anticipation is no easy feat for most guys, as we tend to get excited as well. But with time and practice, you can learn to tease her and maintain your self-control. Do it.
Resources:
www.sexhealth.org
www.babeland.com
http://channels.netscape.com
